Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Spiders



                When a spider lives in a cellar, down in the dank and cold, she doesn’t see many people.  Once in a while a human will climb down her creaking steps. They’ll bend their head to avoid the low pipes and they will search for what they came to retrieve.  In the brief time the person is present, the spider will pause in her web-weaving, and she will observe.
                When a spider lives in the corner of a cottage, she sees humankind on a daily basis.  They bustle about below her, and she hopes they don’t notice her.  If they do, then they’ll tear down her home.  She doesn’t mind that too badly though, she simply moves to a different corner – perhaps higher this time, and rebuilds.  Humans are always around, and this is a hazard that she is prepared to deal with.
                The first spider, the cellar-dweller, rarely sees people.  When she does though, she observes them very carefully.  She watches the way they move, the sounds they make, the tears they cry, and they smiles they beam.  She takes it all in curiously, and stores it away to ponder in the many long hours she spends weaving or waiting alone.
                The second spider is around people all the time.  She takes no special interest in what they do or the way that they do it – this is normalcy to her.  Things simply pass her observation, because after all, she is an expert in people.
                You see, the first spider doesn’t know people at all – she’s barely around them!  The second would be a much better judge of the race called Humans.  

7 comments:

  1. "You see, the first spider doesn’t know people at all – she’s barely around them! The second would be a much better judge of the race called Humans. "

    Are you ironic here? It seems to me that the spider who observes closely though rarely might be a better judge than the one who may watch but through habituation no longer sees.

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  2. Of course you're being ironic! Dumbo me!

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  3. Yes, I was being ironic. I probably should have left my original last sentence in there, questioning if the reader agreed with me.... It was a fun piece to write, and something I've been thinking about lately in writing, and life in general. How people say they're experts in something, but how the fact that they are so familiar with it has made them careless about it.

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  4. How people say they're experts in something, but how the fact that they are so familiar with it has made them careless about it.

    But what spiders are you talking about? Bosses, teachers, ministers, friends, parents,. enemies?

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  5. I guess I was talking about people in general. We rarely seem to truly see one another.

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  6. "We rarely seem to truly see one another."

    Maybe that inability is all that keeps us from being hermits, living solitary lives in the desert. Someone once said that 'hell is other people.'

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  7. Yep, probably. If we tried to see everyone, we would probably be overwhelmed. We'd become cynics for all the evil, or our hearts would break for all the sadness, or we'd run away from all the opposition.

    But hey, we're already being cynics. So what does that mean?

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