When a
spider lives in a cellar, down in the dank and cold, she doesn’t see many
people. Once in a while a human will
climb down her creaking steps. They’ll bend their head to avoid the low pipes
and they will search for what they came to retrieve. In the brief time the person is present, the
spider will pause in her web-weaving, and she will observe.
When a
spider lives in the corner of a cottage, she sees humankind on a daily
basis. They bustle about below her, and
she hopes they don’t notice her. If they
do, then they’ll tear down her home. She
doesn’t mind that too badly though, she simply moves to a different corner – perhaps
higher this time, and rebuilds. Humans
are always around, and this is a hazard that she is prepared to deal with.
The
first spider, the cellar-dweller, rarely sees people. When she does though, she observes them very
carefully. She watches the way they
move, the sounds they make, the tears they cry, and they smiles they beam. She takes it all in curiously, and stores it
away to ponder in the many long hours she spends weaving or waiting alone.
The
second spider is around people all the time.
She takes no special interest in what they do or the way that they do it
– this is normalcy to her. Things simply
pass her observation, because after all, she is an expert in people.
You
see, the first spider doesn’t know people at all – she’s barely around
them! The second would be a much better
judge of the race called Humans.
"You see, the first spider doesn’t know people at all – she’s barely around them! The second would be a much better judge of the race called Humans. "
ReplyDeleteAre you ironic here? It seems to me that the spider who observes closely though rarely might be a better judge than the one who may watch but through habituation no longer sees.
Of course you're being ironic! Dumbo me!
ReplyDeleteYes, I was being ironic. I probably should have left my original last sentence in there, questioning if the reader agreed with me.... It was a fun piece to write, and something I've been thinking about lately in writing, and life in general. How people say they're experts in something, but how the fact that they are so familiar with it has made them careless about it.
ReplyDeleteHow people say they're experts in something, but how the fact that they are so familiar with it has made them careless about it.
ReplyDeleteBut what spiders are you talking about? Bosses, teachers, ministers, friends, parents,. enemies?
I guess I was talking about people in general. We rarely seem to truly see one another.
ReplyDelete"We rarely seem to truly see one another."
ReplyDeleteMaybe that inability is all that keeps us from being hermits, living solitary lives in the desert. Someone once said that 'hell is other people.'
Yep, probably. If we tried to see everyone, we would probably be overwhelmed. We'd become cynics for all the evil, or our hearts would break for all the sadness, or we'd run away from all the opposition.
ReplyDeleteBut hey, we're already being cynics. So what does that mean?